Baby Shower Planning Checklist

The ultimate free interactive checklist - every task, in the right order, so nothing gets left out

From Amy, CutestBabyShowers.com

A baby shower has more moving pieces than most people expect - and the tasks that get missed are almost always the ones nobody thought to put on a list. This free interactive checklist covers every single step of planning a baby shower from the very first decision all the way through the last thank-you note. Check off tasks as you complete them, watch your progress bar fill up, and come back anytime - your checklist saves right in your browser so your progress is always waiting for you. You have got this!

Free Baby Shower Planning Checklist

Click any task to check it off. Your progress saves automatically in your browser - bookmark this page and your checklist will be right here when you return. Click any phase header to expand or collapse that section.

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10 to 12 Weeks Out - Dream and Decide
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This is the most exciting phase - the whole shower is still ahead of you! The decisions you make now set the tone for everything that follows. Take your time and enjoy the dreaming stage.
Confirm the shower date with the mama-to-be and check her calendar
Determine the shower budget before any spending commitmentsUse the Budget Calculator to get a realistic range
Decide on co-hosts and divide responsibilities clearly
Book the venue - home, restaurant, community room, or event space
Choose the shower theme and color palette
Decide on shower style - traditional, brunch, co-ed, virtual, or sip and see
Start building the guest list with the mama-to-beOpen the Guest List Tracker to start adding guests
Collect mailing addresses for all guests
Start your baby shower countdown timerStart the Countdown Timer now
Confirm the baby's gender reveal preference with the parents
Check the due date and confirm the shower falls in the ideal 28 to 35 week windowUse the Due Date Calculator to find your shower sweet spot
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6 to 8 Weeks Out - Invitations and Orders
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Invitations are the most time-sensitive item in the whole planning process - this week is the week to send them. Everything that needs to be ordered early (cake, custom decor, printed items) should be done now too.
Design and order printed invitations or set up digital invitationsUse the Invitation Wording Generator for ready-to-copy text
Write and finalize invitation wording
Decide on and include a diaper raffle insert if doing a raffleCalculate how many raffle tickets to print
Send all invitations - at least 6 weeks before the shower for out-of-town guests
Set a clear RSVP deadline 10 to 14 days before the shower
Order the cake from a bakery (custom cakes need 4 to 6 weeks lead time)
Order or begin sourcing decorations - balloon garlands, backdrops, centerpieces
Order any themed paper goods - plates, napkins, cups, table runners
Plan and order guest favors - or decide on DIY favors and gather supplies
Book any additional vendors - florist, photographer, entertainment
Print diaper raffle tickets if doing a raffle
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Amy recommends
Baby Shower Invitation Sets
Beautiful themed invitation sets on Amazon - many include matching envelopes and are ready to write in, no printing required. Perfect if you want something tangible without a custom print order.
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4 to 6 Weeks Out - Plan the Details
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This is the planning deep-dive phase - menu, games, prizes, and all the fun details. RSVPs should be trickling in now, which means you are getting a clearer picture of your headcount to plan food around.
Plan the full food and drink menu based on shower styleUse the Food and Drink Calculator for exact quantities
Decide what you are making versus buying for the food spread
Choose 3 to 5 games and gather any supplies needed
Buy game prizes - aim for 1 prize per game winner
Plan the diaper raffle prize and buy or assemble it
Plan the shower timeline - arrival, food, games, gift opening, cake
Assign day-of roles to co-hosts (food, games, gift recorder, photographer)
Plan the decoration setup - table layouts, centerpieces, backdrop placement
Create or print any signage - welcome sign, food labels, game instructions
Plan the gift table setup and buy a card box or basket
Create a playlist for background music
Check in with the mama-to-be on any food preferences or aversions to accommodate
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Amy recommends
Baby Shower Games Pack
Pre-printed game card sets for bingo, predictions, word scramble, and more - ready to hand out with no printing required. Much faster than DIY and guests love them.
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2 to 3 Weeks Out - Confirm Everything
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The RSVP deadline should be hitting right about now. This is the confirmation and shopping phase - lock in your headcount, follow up on non-responses, and start buying everything that doesn't need to be fresh.
Follow up on outstanding RSVPs - one friendly message to non-respondersCheck your RSVP tracker for who hasn't responded
Finalize headcount once RSVP deadline passes
Recalculate food quantities based on confirmed guest countRe-run the Food Calculator with your final headcount
Confirm cake order with the bakery - final guest count and pickup details
Confirm all vendor bookings - florist, photographer, rentals
Shop for all non-perishable food items and pantry ingredients
Buy drinks - punch ingredients, lemonade, coffee, tea, juice
Buy all paper goods and serving supplies - plates, napkins, cups, platters, utensils
Assemble guest favors if DIY - bags, filling, tags, ribbon
Confirm seating plan and chair/table count if needed
Buy a notepad and pen for recording gifts during opening
Confirm parking and directions information to share with guests
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1 Week Out - Final Prep
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Shower week! The bulk of the heavy lifting is behind you. This week is for make-ahead prep, final shopping, and getting organized so the day of the shower feels calm and joyful rather than frantic.
Make all ahead-of-time food - pinwheels, deviled eggs, cookie decorating, overnight bakes
Set up decorations if venue allows early access
Do a full supply check - everything on the list should be in hand
Blow up balloons or order balloon garland assembly if not DIY
Charge camera, phone, and any portable speakers fully
Confirm final arrival and setup time with the venue
Confirm day-of duties with all co-hosts and helpers
Print any game sheets, bingo cards, or prediction cards needed
Buy fresh flowers if using for centerpieces - buy 2 days before for best bloom
Pack a day-of kit - tape, scissors, safety pins, extra pens, paper towels, stain remover
Send a reminder to guests with the address and any parking notes
Rest! A well-rested host is the best gift you can give the mama-to-be
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Amy recommends
Baby Shower Balloon Garland Kit
DIY balloon garland kits on Amazon make one of the most dramatic decorations at a fraction of the party store price. Order now for delivery this week - most kits include everything you need including the strip and pump.
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Day Before - Almost Time!
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Tomorrow is the big day! Today is for setting up, prepping, and resting. Try to get everything possible done today so the morning of the shower is calm and unhurried.
Set up all decorations - tables, chairs, centerpieces, backdrop, balloons
Set up the food table layout - platters, serving utensils, labels
Set up the drink station - punch bowl, glasses, ladle, ice buckets
Set up the gift table and card box or basket
Set up the diaper raffle station - sign, ticket bowl, pen
Set up the favor display or favor take-home station
Prepare any overnight food - French toast bake, pinwheels, marinated items
Slice, wash, and prep all fresh produce that keeps overnight
Lay out game supplies and prizes in an easy-to-access spot
Confirm cake pickup time and arrange transportation if needed
Get a solid night of sleep - tomorrow is a celebration!
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Day of the Shower - Celebrate!
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Today is the day! Give yourself plenty of buffer time - everything always takes a little longer than expected. Your only job today is to make the mama-to-be feel celebrated and loved. You have done the hard work. Now enjoy it!
Arrive at the venue at least 30 to 45 minutes before guests for final setup
Set out all food - keep cold items on ice and hot items in slow cooker on warm
Make punch and set up the drink station
Brew the first pot of coffee so the aroma welcomes guests as they arrive
Put on the background music playlist
Greet guests as they arrive and hand out Don't Say Baby pins or any arrival game items
Collect diapers and hand out raffle tickets at the door
Announce the prize for the diaper raffle early to build excitement
Run games at the planned time - keep energy high and prizes ready
Assign a gift recorder to sit beside the mama-to-be during opening
Draw the diaper raffle winner and award the prize
Serve the cake and take photos of the mama-to-be with her cake
Take a group photo with the mama-to-be and all guests before anyone leaves
Take a photo of the full diaper stash for the baby book - it will be impressive!
Enjoy every single moment - you planned something truly special
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After the Shower - Wrap Up
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The party is over but the love continues! The after-shower tasks are mostly for the mama-to-be. Thank-you notes should go out within 2 to 3 weeks while the gratitude is fresh and before the newborn haze sets in.
Send thank-you notes to all guests who attended - aim for within 2 to 3 weeksUse the RSVP Tracker to check off thank-you notes as you send them
Send thank-you notes to guests who sent gifts but could not attend
Write personal thank-you notes to each co-host who helped plan and host
Return any rentals - tables, chairs, linens, serving equipment
Sort and organize all gifts - return or exchange any duplicates
Wash all baby clothing and linens before putting them away
Organize the diaper stash by size and store in a convenient spot
Save the gift list from opening day to reference when writing thank-you notes
Share photos from the shower with guests who attended
Finish setting up the nursery with all the beautiful new items
Your checklist progress is saved automatically in this browser. Bookmark this page and your checked items will be right here every time you return. Clearing your browser data will reset the checklist.

What Every Baby Shower Needs - The Essentials

Whether you are planning your first shower or your fifteenth, these are the non-negotiables that every successful baby shower has in common. Use this as a quick-reference alongside the interactive checklist above.

Venue and Setup Essentials

A comfortable space for your headcountThe most common setup mistake is underestimating how much space people and gifts take up. For a seated shower, plan for at least 6 to 8 square feet per guest plus dedicated space for the food table, gift table, and any game activities.
Enough seating for everyone at the same timeEvery guest should have a chair - people should never have to stand or sit on the floor at a baby shower. If your venue is tight, borrow folding chairs or rent them in advance.
Clear traffic flow from door to food to seatingSet up your food table where guests naturally move after greeting the host. Avoid bottlenecks near the entrance by keeping the gift table to one side and the food accessible from multiple angles.

Food and Drink Essentials

At least one hot food item and one cold food itemA mix of hot and cold keeps the spread interesting and accommodates different appetites. Hot items can be held in a slow cooker on warm; cold items should be nested in ice after the first hour.
A signature drink that photographs beautifullyA pretty pink punch, a lemonade in a glass dispenser, or a Momosa bar makes the drink station feel intentional. Guests always photograph the drink station - make it worth photographing.
Labeled food items for allergy awarenessSmall folded cards identifying each dish - and flagging common allergens - are a thoughtful touch that every host should include. This is especially important at showers with a mix of guests who do not all know each other.

Games and Activities Essentials

One passive game that runs all shower longDon't Say Baby, Baby Under Your Chair, or Floating Duckies all run themselves with no hosting effort. These keep guests engaged without interrupting the flow of the party.
One game during gift openingBaby Shower Bingo played during gift opening keeps guests engaged and entertained during what can otherwise feel like a long stretch. Hand out cards just before opening begins.
The diaper raffleThe diaper raffle benefits the new mama in the most practical way possible - she goes home with diapers she genuinely needs. Include the invite insert, set up the ticket station at the door, and announce the prize early to build excitement all shower long.

The Most Often Forgotten Items

A designated gift recorder Someone needs to sit beside the mama-to-be during gift opening and write down every guest's name and what they gave. Without this, thank-you notes become a guessing game. Assign this role specifically - do not assume it will just happen.
Plenty of pens and markers You need pens for the sign-in, game sheets, raffle tickets, bingo cards, and prediction cards. Every shower runs out of pens. Buy a pack of 10 and put them in several spots around the room.
Garbage bags and a cleanup plan Nobody thinks about cleanup until they are elbow-deep in wrapping paper. Have large garbage bags ready before the shower starts and designate someone to manage the wrapping paper pile during gift opening so it doesn't take over the room.
A way to get the gifts home After a shower, there are always far more gifts than expected. Have large reusable bags, a laundry basket, or a rolling cart ready to transport everything to the mama-to-be's car. This is almost always an afterthought and it shouldn't be.
A stain remover pen in the host kit Punch spills on white tablecloths. Frosting lands on nice blouses. Deviled egg filling finds its way onto upholstery. A stain remover pen in your day-of kit has saved more than one baby shower moment.

Baby Shower Planning on Any Budget

A beautiful baby shower does not require a large budget - it requires smart timing and the right priorities. Here are the places where money well spent makes the biggest difference, and where you can save without anyone noticing.

Spend on: the food and the cakeGuests remember the food more than almost anything else. A generous, well-chosen spread and a beautiful cake make a bigger impression than any decoration. If you have to choose where to put your budget, put it here.
Save on: decorationsBalloon garland kits from Amazon cost $20 to $35 and create the same dramatic impact as a $150 party store setup. Themed decoration bundles, table runners, and centerpiece supplies are all significantly cheaper online when ordered 3 to 4 weeks in advance.
Spend on: the diaper raffle prizeA prize worth winning gets guests excited and drives participation. A $40 to $60 spa set, gift card, or wine basket is the sweet spot - it feels genuinely special without breaking the budget.
Save on: invitationsDigital invitations through Evite or Paperless Post are free or very low cost, send instantly, and make RSVP tracking effortless. Save printed invitations for showers where a physical keepsake is part of the celebration.
Spend on: the guest of honor experienceA special chair decoration, a flower crown, a "Mama To Be" sash, or a beautiful corsage makes the mama-to-be feel like the star she is. These touches cost very little and mean everything.

Baby Shower Supplies Worth Having on Amazon

These are the supplies that show up on every baby shower planning list and are consistently cheaper and easier to source on Amazon than at local party stores.

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Amy recommends
Baby Shower Decorations Bundle Set
Banner, table confetti, centerpiece sticks, and paper fans all in one themed bundle. These sets save you hunting down individual pieces and usually cost $15 to $25 for a complete look. Order 3 to 4 weeks early to avoid rush shipping.
Shop Decoration Sets
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Amy recommends
Punch Bowl Set with Ladle and Cups
A clear glass punch bowl shows off the beautiful color of your punch and becomes an instant centerpiece on the drink table. Look for a set that includes the bowl, ladle, and cups so everything coordinates.
Shop Punch Bowl Sets
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Amy recommends
Mama To Be Sash and Crown Set
A beautiful "Mama To Be" sash and floral crown makes the guest of honor feel like the star of the show from the moment she walks in. One of the most photographed moments of any baby shower.
Shop Mama To Be Sets
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Amy recommends
Baby Shower Guest Book and Advice Cards
A beautiful guest book or set of advice cards gives guests something meaningful to contribute at the shower. The mama-to-be keeps it as a keepsake long after the day is over - far more treasured than a generic card.
Shop Guest Books

Frequently Asked Questions

How far in advance should you start planning a baby shower?

Start planning 10 to 12 weeks before the shower date for the smoothest experience. This gives you time to book a venue, send invitations with adequate notice, order a custom cake, gather decorations without rush shipping, and follow up on RSVPs with enough lead time to plan food quantities. The shower itself is typically held between 28 and 35 weeks of pregnancy - about 4 to 8 weeks before the due date.

What is the most important thing to do first when planning a baby shower?

The two most critical first steps are confirming the shower date with the mama-to-be and booking the venue. Every other decision flows from these two - invitations cannot go out, a theme cannot be finalized, and food cannot be planned until you know when and where the shower is happening. After those are locked in, run the budget calculator before spending anything so you have a realistic spending plan from the start.

Will my checklist progress be saved between visits?

Yes - every item you check off saves automatically in your browser as you click it. As long as you return to this page on the same device and browser, your progress will be exactly where you left it. Clearing your browser data will reset the checklist, so bookmark this page for easy return access. Use the Print button to keep a paper backup of your current progress.

What are the most commonly forgotten baby shower planning tasks?

The most commonly overlooked tasks are: designating a gift recorder during opening, buying enough pens for games and raffle tickets, planning how to get all the gifts home after the shower, bringing garbage bags for wrapping paper, and following up on RSVPs after the deadline. The checklist above includes all of these so nothing slips through - work through it phase by phase and you will not miss a thing.

How many tasks are on this baby shower checklist?

The checklist covers 95 tasks organized across 8 planning phases - from the first decisions made 10 to 12 weeks out all the way through the thank-you notes sent after the shower. Each phase has a progress bar showing how many tasks in that phase are complete, and the overall progress bar at the top shows your total completion percentage across the whole checklist.

Can more than one person use this checklist?

The checklist saves to the individual browser it is used on, so each co-host would have their own separate progress on their own device. The best approach for co-hosted showers is to designate one person as the primary checklist keeper, or to use the Print function to create a shared paper version that everyone references. The print-out includes all 95 tasks organized by phase so it works perfectly as a shared paper document.

Free Baby Shower Planning Tools

Guest List and RSVP Tracker

Track every guest, RSVP, gift, and thank-you note. Saves automatically in your browser.

Open RSVP Tracker

Baby Shower Budget Calculator

Full cost breakdown before you spend anything - every category with realistic ranges.

Calculate My Budget

Food and Drink Calculator

Exact quantities for every food and drink based on your confirmed guest count.

Calculate Food Amounts

All Free Planning Tools

See all 7 free baby shower calculators and trackers in one place.

See All Tools

Diaper Bag Checklist

free printable DIAPER BAG CHECKLIST

We created a free printable diaper bag checklist that you can print off and tuck inside your baby shower gift for the mom-to-be!

The perfect gift idea would be to get her that designer diaper back she has been eyeing and filling it with all of the "new baby" essentials! Then include the checklist so she can always be stocked with the important "new baby items!"

Diaper bags are usually overflowing with all kinds of crazy things - especially if you have other children. There can be iPads, Kindles, iPhones, strange snacks from a week ago, juice boxes, you name it!

When you bring a new baby home you want the new diaper bag to stay clean and organized as long as possible. Below is a list to keep it well stocked and some tips for keeping it free from mysterious food items.


Top Diaper Bag Essentials

  • Diapers
  • Wipes
  • Bottles
  • Bibs
  • Extra Outfit(s)
  • Medicine
  • Diaper Rash Cream
  • Thermometer
  • Camera
  • Sunscreen
  • Snacks
  • Toys
  • Teether
  • Powdered Formula Packets
  • Bottled Water
  • Teething Gel
  • Pacifiers
  • Baby Nail Clippers
  • Mom items: wallet, cell phone, lipgloss, etc.

An easy way to stay organized and keep the clutter down to a minimum is to clean out the diaper bag after each outing. It is easier said than done but it really does help.

Also, if you have other children, fill a small bag with items they will need such as snacks and toys and tuck it into the diaper bag. This way their items stay separate from the baby's items.

Tuck your cell phone, lip gloss, wallet, etc into a side pocket or a mini purse.



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